Recruiters won't like this story, but it's an interesting one for candidates who broker their own deals. Free Money Finance has a post that was in the Carnival of the Capitalists, and talks about goosing your salary with a simple question.
Here's a tidbit I found in Money's July issue regarding what to do when you are given a job offer:
Nearly 60% of hiring managers leave room to negotiate in their initial offer to a candidate.
As such, Money's conclusion is to "ask for more."
Can you make it a little more? That's sometimes a tough question to ask, and it can backfire. Some managers (more than 40%) make an offer and expect it to be accepted or declined as is. If you really need the job, it might be best not to ask, but then again, do you really want to work for a guy who would fire you over a perceived slight?
I've found this to be an excellent strategy when negotiating for price on electronics, cars, and software, but it makes sense that if you're looking for work, asking for a little more is best done when the company has signalled an interest in you. Obviously the scope matters, as $1,000 on a $150,000 salary matters less than $10,000 on a $60,000 salary, but even if you are making $150,000 a year, would you willingly turn down $5,000 in cash (say if you stayed there 5 years)?
This is maximizing your lifetime earnings, as the more you make now, the more companies are willing to pay you in the future, so there is a lot of merit in asking for more.
I find that most people make their mistakes in the way and in the time they ask.
1) Recruiters: If you're working with a recruiter, the two of you should have worked out what you are going to ask for. The time to ask for more money with a recruiter is before the final offer. Why? Because you now face two gauntlets. The recruiter may begin worrying about your intentions if you ask for more money at the wrong stage. If he has another candidate waiting in the wings, you might find yourself "withdrawn" for being unreliable, with no reason given to the hiring manager.
Is that fair? No. But the recruiter has a lot of experience dealing with candidates, and they only get paid if you start - so asking for more when their job was to deliver you at a certain salary means you are no longer working with your recruiter. So how do you handle it? Establish a range with the recruiter of what is a fair salary, and if the work, or the environment is not what was promised, the time to ask for that upper range is after an interview and before the offer comes.
This gives you reasons why you should ask for more, which allows the recruiter to communicate with the hiring manager. If you're just asking to ask for more, the recruiter didn't do the job they were paid for in discussing this with you ahead of time.
And no you can't have some of their fee. It's not your business what their fee is, and every time a recruiter cuts his fee to get you on board, he lives to regret it.